Inside Scoop:Men (Being a Lady) Pt.4

Well ladies we've come to the absolute end of our "Being A Lady" Etiquette series but don't worry there is still a whole lot of Inside Scoop on Men to come...I know, I Know had you a Lil nervous for second. Common we wouldn't
just end it like that:), we would've warned you first....Stay Tuned

A woman who is LOYAL is a GO:a woman who always has her EYE OUT for the next best thing is a NOA Woman who UNDERSTANDS that a man validates his MANHOOD by who he is, what he does, & how much he makes, & who knows how to "G"/FINESSE her relationship so that her man feels like he's handling his business (& is HONESTLY DOING SO) is a GO: a woman who WIELDS her paycheck & influence like a sword & BELITTLES his career & financial contributions is a NO

A woman who takes a man's number but doesn't give him her own is a GO: a woman who hands out her home, work & cell phone numbers, e-mail address, Twitter, BBM plus her home address, to a man who's done nothing more but buy her a drink is a NO

Stat S.W.E.E.T.... don't forget these examples when BEING A LADY!

~Ms.Francois

Inside Scoop: Men (Being A Lady) Pt.3

Dag, where did the Weekend go:(...until next Friday,but BACK TO BUSINESS. O.k so where did we leave off....let me see, (flipping through pages, hmmmm), GOT IT!

A woman whom we can INTRODUCE to our friends & family is a GO: a woman we DON'T EVEN BOTHER INTRODUCING to our friends or family is a NOA woman who shows her APPRECIATION for all that you do for her is a GO: a woman who acts like NOTHING you do can make her HAPPY is a NOA woman who SMILES & takes care of herself & is generally happy with her life is a GO: a woman who doesn't take care of herself & is SOUR all the time, has an ATTITUDE wider than all outdoors, & doesn't hesitate to LAY somebody out for the slightest reason is a NO

Who really knew Men even payed attention to these little things?...apparently they do, because each point is directly from a Man's Perspective. Be mindful & recognize your always being watched, whether it's a Guy of Interest, or whatever... As Women of Integrity, Values & Morals it is extremely important that our Daily Lady Etiquette is always ON POINT...it doesn't mean you can't have fun, because we all have fun from time to time but remember to maintain a Classy Manner.

~Ms.Francois

Inside Scoop: Men (Being A Lady) Edition Pt.2

Hope you found the examples from yesterday very helpful...cont where we left off yesterday.....

A woman who can adapt to any situation thrown at her-she can hold her own in her career, in a restaurant, at a concert or public outing is a GO: a woman who can't put together a coherent sentence or makes it clear she has no interest in doing so is a NO
A woman who can hold a respectful, respectable conversation with a man & his MOTHER is a GO: a woman who QUIVERS at the prospect of having to talk to the matriarch of a man's family is a NO A woman who knows she wants to be married & raise a family & lets a man know this UP FRONT is a GO: a woman who doesn't have a plan for her relationship life beyond NEXT WEEKEND is a NO Keep these examples handy when going on a date or while you are getting to know a possible prospect...that is of course, if you intend on making him someone your serious about!

~Ms.Francois

Inside Scoop:Men (Being A lady) Edition Pt.1

When it comes to Dating, I'm pretty positive you have thought to yourself.... What do men look for in a woman? or What am I doing wrong, when it comes to dealing with a man? (hypnotize him & make him do whatever you want lol). Don't worry ladies, all hope is not lost, as long as you try to incorporate these examples when hunting for the opposite sex...I'm sure we all can relate to doing one or two things wrong on this list, but not anymore!

A woman who is dressed appropriately- has her goodies reasonably covered , but is still very sexy, is a GO: a woman who is scantily clad & dripping sex is a NOA woman who won't let you feel all over her body while your dancing is a GO; a woman who drops it like it's hot, putting on a dance floor performance is a NO

Could that be one of the reasons for their split?

A woman who COMMANDS respect is a Go; a woman who lets men get away with disrespecting her is NO

Point is ladies: always, BE A LADY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~Ms.Francois

Ladies, Please Love Yourself

34% of women had their first negative thoughts about their body before age 11. 33% went on their first diet between ages 11 & 13. 26% started dieting in high school. 47% say their body image has been affected by photos of models & celebrities. 65% of women say if they could go back in time, they wouldn't make themselves any slimmer: they would change how they felt about their looks. Ladies Love yourselves flaws & all...

Remember, "There is NO Greater Love Than the REAL You!

~Ms.Francois

Exactly As I Am

Spelman graduate, 'Access Hollywood' correspondent and Emmy Award-winning journalist Shaun Robinson is now an author. 'Exactly As I Am: Celebrated Women Share Candid Advice with Today's Girls on What it Takes to Believe in Yourself' (Ballantine) is filled with sage advice from noted women on everything from sex and body image to self-confidence and even crash diets.
"There were several things that inspired me to write this book," says Robinson of the two-and-a-half-year project. The first was just to touch the lives of the teen girls she regularly comes into contact with through her volunteer work with the foster care system of Los Angeles County. The other was about living a more meaningful life.
"I was listening to a sermon, and the pastor was saying that we constantly strive for more money, more stuff, a bigger car, a bigger house. And he was saying if you really want to live a more fruitful life, you really have to strive for significance, not just success. And in my own little way, this is how I'm giving back and saying thank you for the many blessings that have come into my life."

Words of wisdom from : Oprah Winfrey, Queen Latifah, Vanessa Williams, Eva Mendes, Mandy Moore, Alicia Keys and many more! Click here for purchasing information.

I am excited for this book! In our (Marie and I) line of work, we encounter so many young girls with self-esteem issues, because of these issues, they make poor decisions. These young girls need role models and fathers!! They need to read other types of books BESIDES the "hood books" that sell them false dreams of meeting a "BOSS" who is going to buy them LOUIS VUITTON and GUCCI! We need to love ourselves and teach our daughters how to love themselves also!

~Nique