Inside Scoop: Men (Being A Lady) Pt.3

Dag, where did the Weekend go:(...until next Friday,but BACK TO BUSINESS. O.k so where did we leave off....let me see, (flipping through pages, hmmmm), GOT IT!

A woman whom we can INTRODUCE to our friends & family is a GO: a woman we DON'T EVEN BOTHER INTRODUCING to our friends or family is a NOA woman who shows her APPRECIATION for all that you do for her is a GO: a woman who acts like NOTHING you do can make her HAPPY is a NOA woman who SMILES & takes care of herself & is generally happy with her life is a GO: a woman who doesn't take care of herself & is SOUR all the time, has an ATTITUDE wider than all outdoors, & doesn't hesitate to LAY somebody out for the slightest reason is a NO

Who really knew Men even payed attention to these little things?...apparently they do, because each point is directly from a Man's Perspective. Be mindful & recognize your always being watched, whether it's a Guy of Interest, or whatever... As Women of Integrity, Values & Morals it is extremely important that our Daily Lady Etiquette is always ON POINT...it doesn't mean you can't have fun, because we all have fun from time to time but remember to maintain a Classy Manner.

~Ms.Francois

Inside Scoop: Men (Being A Lady) Edition Pt.2

Hope you found the examples from yesterday very helpful...cont where we left off yesterday.....

A woman who can adapt to any situation thrown at her-she can hold her own in her career, in a restaurant, at a concert or public outing is a GO: a woman who can't put together a coherent sentence or makes it clear she has no interest in doing so is a NO
A woman who can hold a respectful, respectable conversation with a man & his MOTHER is a GO: a woman who QUIVERS at the prospect of having to talk to the matriarch of a man's family is a NO A woman who knows she wants to be married & raise a family & lets a man know this UP FRONT is a GO: a woman who doesn't have a plan for her relationship life beyond NEXT WEEKEND is a NO Keep these examples handy when going on a date or while you are getting to know a possible prospect...that is of course, if you intend on making him someone your serious about!

~Ms.Francois

Inside Scoop:Men (Being A lady) Edition Pt.1

When it comes to Dating, I'm pretty positive you have thought to yourself.... What do men look for in a woman? or What am I doing wrong, when it comes to dealing with a man? (hypnotize him & make him do whatever you want lol). Don't worry ladies, all hope is not lost, as long as you try to incorporate these examples when hunting for the opposite sex...I'm sure we all can relate to doing one or two things wrong on this list, but not anymore!

A woman who is dressed appropriately- has her goodies reasonably covered , but is still very sexy, is a GO: a woman who is scantily clad & dripping sex is a NOA woman who won't let you feel all over her body while your dancing is a GO; a woman who drops it like it's hot, putting on a dance floor performance is a NO

Could that be one of the reasons for their split?

A woman who COMMANDS respect is a Go; a woman who lets men get away with disrespecting her is NO

Point is ladies: always, BE A LADY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~Ms.Francois

Inside Scoop Men: Red Flag Alert

Ok ladies, sometimes we go on dates and we think we have a lot in common with this one particular guy, but then he starts acting "funny." With the help of our friends and http://www.getromantic.com/, we've compiled a list of red flags that will help you

"Ditch Him Before He Ditches You!"

1. He doesn't make much eye contact. That is just rude! He is definitely doing the Stevie Wonder head shake! This could mean that he doesn't like looking at you. Even if he is "shy" if he is attracted to you, he wouldn't be able to keep his eyes off of you.
2. If not looking at you isn't bad enough, if he doesn't comment on your beauty, you may want to breathe, stretch, shake and let him go. When you first start dating he may say you are beautiful, I love your hair, your eyes, your perfume, SOMETHING. If he doesn't compliment you then don't waste your time.
3. He keeps his hands to himself. Well I'm not saying he should act like the master groper, but there will be some casual touching. He may grab your hands, gently touch your shoulder or arm or even your back as you guys walk or chit chat.

4. If you are on a date and the waiter asks if you want another drink and he says "no we are fine" first smack him (just kidding) then say I can speak for myself. Obviously he is rushing to get rid of you so what you should do is no I'll have another martini. Drink it slow and then tell him you don't want to see him anymore lol. (that is pretty mean lol)
5. He doesn't seem interested in you. If he doesn't ask you questions about your life or your interests, he is probably self-centered and that is a definite red flag.

6. He does not mention a 2nd date. I've been on plenty of dates where the guy tries to setup a 2nd date during the 1st...If you mention that G.I. Joe is coming out he may say ok maybe we can catch a movie this weekend? Or You can say I just love Thai food he'll say ok maybe we can try Spice...you get my drift? he'll say things like ok next week we can do this or go

here or see this etc.
7. He doesn't walk you to your car or if you didn't drive, doesn't offer to hail a cab and then when you part ways he gives you a handshake lol He is just pathetic then and you don't need a 2nd date with him anyway.

So ladies, if any of the flags are raised...even if you are in stilletos, you better RUN! Ditch him before he ditches you.

*Disclaimer, these red flags are not definite or set in stone. We are not responsible for potential breakups or any other relationship woes. Use this information at your own discretion lol

~Nique