Flirting 101Do Flirt with Your Eyes
Flirting with your eyes is one of the easiest ways to test if a guy is into you.
DO act gracefully
Subtle indications you’re attracted to someone are the most effective ways to let him know. There’s no harm in flirting with someone who doesn’t reciprocate, but being able to bow out gracefully is of the utmost importance.
DO remember to smile
Happy is in! Mysterious is out.
Smiling at him is an oldie but goodie. Your self-confident look will always get him.
Don't Come on too strong
Outrageous pickup lines and jaw-dropping displays of sexuality are almost always a DON’T. By making overtly sexual comments, you’ll quickly get categorized as nothing more than a hookup. Pretending to have more fun than you actually are counts as overdoing it, so keep the hair-tossing and forced laughter to a minimum. “It looks weird and desperate.”
DO act your age
Be confident in who you are. Don’t dumb yourself down by giggling at everything he says or asking questions you already know the answers to.“A real man wants a real woman, not an adolescent. And a woman who flirts like a little girl comes off as desperate and needy.
DO take charge
Seriously, what do you have to lose? By taking charge, you are making it clear that you’re interested. Take the conversation where you want it to go. If you expect him to call, give him your number. But if you want to call him, demand his number.
DON’T limit your flirting to face time.
Make flirting a virtual reality. If you see a single guy on your friend’s Facebook page, have her ‘friend’ suggest you with a cute little note. You can also try following him on Twitter. Respond to some of his posts with thoughtful messages and helpful links.DON’T ask him out on Twitter—ever.” That’ll take you from cutie to creepy in less than 140 characters.
DON’T shy away from physical contact.
Making physical contact is a foolproof way to show your interest, but proceed with caution. Use light touches to the arms, shoulders and legs to clearly communicate your interest. Physical flirting is hard to misread, and your light touches give him the confidence he needs to take it to the next level.But if you want a guy to get to know you, don’t get too physical too fast.
Ladies is this accurate? Do you agree with these rules of flirting?
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